The Cage You Built Yourself
- Lucas Welk
- 1 day ago
- 6 min read
You're trapped. And you put yourself there.
Not intentionally. Not consciously. But every decision you made that felt safe, every rule you followed without questioning, every constraint you accepted as "just how things work" and each one added another bar to the cage you're standing in right now.
The worst part? You can't see it. The cage is invisible. Made of assumptions, normalized patterns, and systems you've internalized so completely that you think they're reality itself, not just one version of it.
The Bargain You Didn't Know You Made
Somewhere along the way, you traded wildness for safety. Instinct for system. Autonomy for convenience.
It started early. School trained you to sit still, follow instructions, and wait for permission. Good grades went to those who complied best, not those who thought most dangerously. You learned that coloring inside the lines mattered more than creating your own picture.
Then came work. Corporate jobs rewarded predictability. The person who didn't cause problems got promoted. The person who questioned the system got labeled "difficult." You learned that being manageable was more valuable than being right.
So you optimized for what the system rewarded:
Playing it safe (instead of taking strategic risks)
Following the template (instead of defining your own game)
Building what the market allows (instead of what you're capable of)
Asking permission (that you never actually needed)
And it worked. Sort of.
You built a business. You're making money. You're checking boxes. By conventional metrics, you're succeeding.
So why does it feel like something's fundamentally wrong?
The Invisible Architecture of Your Cage
Your cage isn't made of obvious constraints. It's built from systems that promised to help you but actually just made you more dependent:
The systems that "help" you:
Platforms that give you customers (but own the relationship)
Suppliers that provide inventory (but control your margins)
Templates that simplify decisions (but eliminate strategic thinking)
Best practices that guarantee mediocrity (disguised as wisdom)
You didn't notice because each piece seemed helpful in isolation.
The e-commerce platform made launching easier. The supplier relationship simplified inventory. The business coach gave you a roadmap. The industry best practices gave you confidence.
But here's what nobody told you: every "help" came with invisible chains.
The platform can change its algorithm tomorrow and destroy your traffic. The supplier can raise prices and erase your margins. The template optimized you for a game someone else is winning. The best practices were designed for average businesses, and average is exactly what you became.
How They Engineered Your Compliance
This didn't happen by accident. The cage was designed. Not by conspiracy, but by evolved systems that benefit from your domestication.
Consider who profits when you're manageable:
Platforms need you dependent so you can't leave when they change terms.
Suppliers need you weak so you accept their pricing without negotiation.
Competitors need you playing their game so you don't redefine the rules.
The industry needs you conventional so you don't disrupt their comfortable equilibrium.
Your compliance is their security. Your dependence is their profit. Your weakness is their strength.
And they've gotten very good at making the cage comfortable enough that you don't try to leave.
The Comfort Trap
Here's the insidious part: the cage is padded. It's not obviously painful. You're not being tortured. You're just... stuck.
Revenue is decent. You can pay your bills. You have some flexibility. It's not terrible.
But it's not what you're capable of either.
You know this because of the constant low-grade anxiety. The feeling that you're one platform change, one supplier price increase, one market shift away from crisis. The sense that you're building someone else's vision of success instead of your own.
You're optimizing for survival when you should be positioning for dominance.
Playing defense when you should be playing offense.
Building dependency when you should be building sovereignty.
And the cage gets more comfortable the longer you stay in it.
You develop routines. Habits. Systems that work well enough. Relationships with the constraints. Stockholm syndrome with your own captivity.
Breaking free starts to feel riskier than staying put. At least you know how this cage works. At least it's predictable. At least you're safe.
Safe. That word again.
Safe is the lie you tell yourself to avoid admitting you're scared.
What The Cage Costs You
Let's be specific about what you're losing:
Strategic Capability You've stopped thinking strategically because the system does your thinking for you. Follow the template. Use the platform. Accept best practices. Your strategic muscles have atrophied from disuse.
Competitive Edge Everyone in your cage is playing the same game by the same rules. You're competing on price, on platform ranking, on whoever executes the template best. There's no edge, just incremental optimization of someone else's system.
Real Independence You think you're an entrepreneur, but you're more like a well-compensated employee of the systems you depend on. The platform employs you. The supplier employs you. The template employs you. You just don't get benefits.
Your Actual Potential The most expensive cost is invisible: everything you could be building if you weren't trapped optimizing someone else's game.
The Question You're Avoiding
Here it is, the one you don't want to face:
What would you build if you weren't playing by their rules?
Not "what would you build given current constraints", you've already answered that. You're living it.
I mean: What would you build if you redefined the entire game?
If you didn't need the platform's approval. If you weren't dependent on supplier pricing. If you could ignore industry best practices. If you stopped asking permission you don't actually need.
What would that business look like?
Different, I'd bet. Bolder. More aligned with what you're actually capable of. Less safe. More powerful.
The business you'd build if you were honest about what you want instead of what the system allows.
The First Step Is Seeing
You can't escape a cage you won't acknowledge exists.
Most entrepreneurs never see it. They feel the constraint but blame themselves. "I'm not working hard enough." "I need better tactics." "I should optimize better."
They never question whether the game itself is the problem.
But you're reading this, which means you suspect something.
You suspect the rules you're following weren't designed for your benefit.
You suspect the systems that "help" you are actually constraining you.
You suspect you're capable of more but something's holding you back.
That suspicion is the crack in the cage.
What Comes Next
Seeing the cage is just the beginning. The real work is breaking free strategically—not through reckless rebellion but through systematic rewilding.
You need to:
Identify your specific constraints (economic, operational, strategic, mental)
Understand who benefits from keeping you caged
Build the capability to operate outside the system
Execute bold moves while managing real-world risk
This isn't about burning everything down. It's about building strategic independence while functioning in the world as it actually exists.
It's about becoming ungovernable without becoming unemployable.
Over the coming chapters of UNTAMED STRATEGY, we'll dismantle the cage piece by piece:
The evolutionary mismatch making you anxious and weak
The compliance industrial complex profiting from your domestication
The primal powers they pathologized (and why you need them back)
The eight strategic laws that still determine who wins
But it starts here. With seeing.
The Choice
You have two options:
Option 1: Stay in the cage. It's comfortable. Predictable. Safe. You know the rules. You know what to expect. You can optimize your way to a decent life. Not great. Not powerful. Not free. But decent.
Option 2: Break free. It's uncomfortable. Uncertain. Risky. You'll have to think strategically again. You'll have to build capabilities the system doesn't reward. You'll have to face the fact that you've been playing small.
But you'll be building something that's actually yours. On your terms. With real independence. Real power. Real sovereignty.
Most people choose Option 1.
They read this, nod along, feel momentarily inspired, then return to the cage because the cage is what they know.
Some people choose Option 2.
They see the cage clearly. They face the uncomfortable truth that they built it themselves. And they commit to the hard work of strategic liberation.
So Which One Are You?
Not which one do you want to be. Which one are you actually willing to become?
Because the cage isn't going anywhere on its own. The systems won't suddenly release you. The platforms won't give you independence. The suppliers won't hand you power.
You have to take it.
Strategically. Systematically. Over time.
But it starts with seeing the cage.
And now you've seen it.
The question is: what are you going to do about it?
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